Confidence Ladies, love this tedtalk!

http://youtu.be/w-HYZv6HzAs

You don't need validation from anybody but yourselves Bellas

Once you begin to accept & love & Be your true self you will not need validation from anybody. True acceptance of oneself comes from within and nobody can give you that but yourself. Acceptance is directly related to confidence, the more you accept and love yourself the more confident you'll become. Xoxo

Self love

Always keep blooming Bellas

Power of your visions

Hi Bellas, 

I'd like to share with you a person who's encouraging words & messages have changed my life for the better Joel Olsteen. I came across Mr. Olsteen while flipping channels, he is a pastor spreading God's messages in a positive & relatable way. After I saw him once I began watching all his YouTube videos as often as I could especially when I was feeling down or discouraged. I hope he encourages you & uplifts your spirit as much as he's done mine & millions of others. You don't have to be religious in order to listen to Joel since his messages are 100% positivity filled. Enjoy Bellas Xoxo 

Power of your visions:

http://youtu.be/FxcPG-kDJfM

Strengths Finder 2.0

So as you gals may know I'm a reader. I began reading the New York Times Best Seller "Strengths Finder 2.0" by Tom Rath. This book is backed by more than 50 Years of studying people & their strengths. Here are a few interesting quotes: 'what's more, we had discovered that people have several times more potential for growth when they invest energy in developing their strengths instead of correcting their deficiencies.' I too have thought this from reading other books and also feel this also pertains to our looks, we All have insecurities but why bother concentrating on those when we can concentrate instead of what we do love about ourselves, which will always make us feel way better and whats more important than that? 

Now when it comes to career & personality 'our studies indicate that people who do have the opportunity to focus on their strengths every day are six times as likely to be engaged in their jobs and more than three times as likely to report having an excellent quality of life in general.' Many times people are stuck in jobs or careers where they are not taking advantage of their biggest strengths and what a waste that must be so I decided to invest $10 into taking their online test at www.strengthsfinder.com. Choose the Strengths Finder Test 2.0, it really is a great investment. My top 5 strengths turned out to be Maximizer, Positivity, Focus, Futuristic and activator - which couldn't describe me any better! I love it because it provides you with your top strengths, explanations of these as well as an action plan on how to incorporate them into your life & career. FYI I'm not getting paid for giving this recommendation. I always blog about things that I feel have helped better my life & share that info with you Bellas. Hope you find your biggest strengths & use them to your full potential. Xoxo

So test yourself. 

Exactly

And this goes for all relationships you allow to develop. Whether its with a guy or with new friends, if they are not adding value to your life then it's not worth holding onto.